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OK, so I haven’t exactly lived up to my promise to keep blogging on a regular basis despite my personal issues.  Sorry.  I’ve been wasting a lot of time lately, just moping around the house.  It’s funny, when you’re depressed, you have all this time on your hands, all this nervous energy, and yet, you don’t get anything done.  I haven’t even changed light bulbs.  I just sat there in the dark, and watched a lot of tv.  I’ve also been reconnecting with friends on Facebook; even though I had previously canceled my account, I realized that I had recently been in touch with a lot of friends, and they’re a support system.

Today, I realized that I was sitting in a dark house, and I had a ladder and a light bulb.  I decided that I was going to do something productive today, and I changed the damn light bulb.  I also realized that I could write a blog post, and that I needed to commit to doing something productive every day, or I was going to slide slowly into the abyss.

So, here we are, you and me, and this blog post that isn’t going anywhere.  Think of it as a public commitment; I vow to blog at least once every week.  I need to reconnect with people, and this blog had been a great vehicle for that in the past, and it will be one for me again.  So, if you’ve hung around waiting on something to happen… it’s happening.

OT: Endings and new beginnings

This is a personal post; I need to write it to explain my absence from blogging, and hopefully announce my return with new vigor.

My wife and I have decided to separate after 14 years of marriage; although it’s a painful process, I’m hoping that we’ll both survive this, and come out of it as better people.  I wish I could say that it was completely mutual, but to be honest, I’m no longer able to understand her motives.  All I know is that I needed something to change in order for me to be healthy and happy, and this seems to me to be the only option left (and please, if you have an opinion about that, keep it to yourself.  I appreciate the concern, but I don’t need advice at this point).

Anyway, I’ve been busy setting up a new home and working out visitation with my kids (who I think are doing remarkably well under the circumstances).  It’s been tough making the adjustment, but I think I’m finally at a place where I can start writing again.  If you’re still out there, dear readers, I hope that I can soon start contributing to the community at full blast over the next few days.  It’ll give me something to do 🙂

Thanks for your patience, your thoughts, and your prayers.  Life happens when we least expect it.

PASS Summit Day 1.5

So this is the first official day of Summit, but since I got here in the middle of the day yesterday, I’m cramming a brief post in combining yesterday and today.  I could sum up the experience in one word:

Awesome.

I have met SO many people face to face that I normally follow on twitter and other social tools, and it’s been amazing to sit and chat with other SQL geeks.  I ended up buying the DVD set today because I had too many sessions to attend, and too many people to chat with.  It’s truly inspiring to hang out with a bunch of intelligent people who are really passionate about what they do.

Highlights:

  • Pinal Dave stole my pen.  Well, he actually borrowed it to fill out his sqlbingo card, and then forgot it.  It’s OK, because I know if I make him feel guilty, he’ll fly back to the States from India to bring it to me.  And I could make him speak at our newsgroup.
  • SQLBingo has not taken off as well as I had hoped, but it’s going OK.  They’re drawing the first two winners tomorrow morning, and I hope to pitch it harder tomorrow.  I forget that just because I’m a social person, not everyone else is.
  • I learned some new stuff at Michelle Ufford’s presentation on VLDB’s.  Need to check things when I get back in the office to see if they’ll help some performance issues.
  • Met Patrick Leblanc, Tim Mitchell, Lori Edwards, Jeff Rush, etc., etc.,etc…
  • Met Remus Rusanu today after Brent Ozar’s session, and was told by him that he liked some of my responses on StackOverflow.  That really made my day, because he gives some great advice on that website.
  • Kevin Kline gave me AND the user group autographed copies of his latest book.
  • MidnightDBA gave me free stuff.

LetDowns:

  • I didn’t win any blogging awards.  More incentive to keep working at it.
  • I realized I should have submitted something to present.  Paul Waters and I made a pact to come up with 3 submission ideas for next year.

OK, I’m officially out of steam.  More to do tomorrow.

SQLBingo: a few more things to consider…

SQLBingo is still on at Pass Summit 2009; we’re less than a week away, and this should be a lot of fun.  To sum up, a bunch of us SQL Tweeters are going to be wandering around Summit; if you want to play Bingo, you have to match the real person with their avatar on the card, meet the person, and get their codeword.  Should be a lot of fun, but I have a few more things to add.

If you haven’t read the following posts, you may want to start with them first:

SQL PASS Twitter Bingo: The rules so far…

A basic summary of the rules for squares (with some general advice for players).  I’d like to add some things to the “how to play” list, but we’ll get to that in a minute.

#SQLBingo: Meet nice people and learn their safewords.

Brent (as usual) writes a very succinct post on how to play if you’re not a square.  What’s important about Brent’s list is that he lays out some guidelines for things to do BEFORE you go to Summit.

Wanna play?  It takes some prep work…

It should be noted that this is a low-budget game at best; I think one of squares called it “guerrilla networking”, which I think is an awesome term for it.  What it means is that we’re trying to keep the rules and the play very simple, but unfortunately, that also means that the players have to provide some of their own resources for playing.

If you are playing, follow the steps at Brent’s blog:

  1. Print your cards ahead of time from http://sqlserverpedia.com/bingo. (Be sure to refresh in between)
  2. Find the tweeps.
  3. Turn in a card per day when you’ve filled out a row on Tuesday, 2 rows on Wednesday, and blackout on Thursday.

You may also want to set up a Twitter account between now and then.  If you’d like, you can check out sqlbingo’s profile; this is a dummy account set up by Aaron Nelson and myself to follow all of the squares.  The whole point of this account is to simply give you a quick list of all of the Twitter accounts that are on the cards.  You may also want to set up a search for the term #sqlbingo; remember, the squares will be broadcasting their location periodically throughout the day, and using this term will help find them.

Already a square? It takes some prep work…

Same rules for players applies to the squares; however, we’ve decided that squares are not eligible for prizes.  Sorry.  However, if you’d like to make it easy for your adoring fans to find you, you may want to print out a simple badge with your avatar and username on it.  Just a 2×4 scrap of paper, and tape it to your standard Summit badge.  If you forget, c’est la vie!  It’ll just be tougher for people to find you.

Looking forward to meeting all of you face to face!

Stu

SQL PASS Twitter Bingo: The rules so far…

Sorry for the late posting on this, but it’s been a heckuva day 🙂  Anyway, we (Brent Ozar, Blythe Morrow, several others and I) have had several logistical discussion about how Twitter Bingo will be played at PASS Summit 2009, and I thought I would post what we’ve discussed so far.

The goals!

The goal of the game is to increase networking opportunities between the SQL Twitter community and face-to-face PASS Attendees.  Our hope is to a) strengthen existing relationships between SQL tweople, and b) encourage new people to start using Twitter and contribute to the social interactions beyond Summit. 

What is NOT the goal!

To win fabulous prizes.  Quest and SQLServerPedia are putting together some encouragement for new people to play, but the focus isn’t on “winning”; it’s on community interaction.

“Squares” and players…

Squares will be the volunteers who agreed to have their Twitter avatars placed on the cards.   Squares may certainly play the game by printing out cards and pursuing other squares, but at this time, squares are discouraged from entering the prize drawing (Sorry about that; the prizes are fabulous, but not that fabulous).  Again, we want to encourage new people to join the community; if you’re a square, you’re already there (ooh, that was a horrible rhyme.)

How will players mark off squares on their cards?

Each square has a code word; when asked for that code word, they should provide it to the player, who can write it on their card.  I realized that code words will probably be shared among players, but again, the goal is to encourage community interaction even at the risk of minor “cheating”.   We may come up with a more secure scheme next time, but this time, it just seems easier for Quest/SQLServerPedia employees to validate code words.

Arlene Gray (@whimsql) suggested that she write her code word on the back of her business card; I think that’s a great idea.

How will players know where to find me?

Twitter is an option 🙂  If you can, tweet your location throughout the day using the hashtag #sqlbingo.

Brent also suggested that if you’re a speaker, you may want to ask squares in the room to stand up before you begin your session, so players can identify them.  We’re also planning on asking squares to print out a small badge to tape to their regular conference badge showing their avatar and username.

Where do players get their cards?

We’re going to ask players to print out their own cards and bring them with them; we’ll also have some cards available at the Quest/SQLServerPedia booth.  Blythe Morrow also suggested that we use the PASS help desk booth as well.

How do players play?

We’re planning on adding this to the card:

Here’s how the contest works: print out 3 Bingo cards.  Try to meet as many people as possible that are on your card each day.  Each person has their own code word, and you have to write down their code word in their space on the Bingo card.  When you get a straight line (5 people in any direction) on Tuesday, you can drop off your card in the SQLServerPedia booth in the exhibit hall.  Each day, we’ll draw 2 winners and email them with their prize package – things like signed books, gift cards, and more.  On Wednesday, it gets tougher – you have to have two straight lines filled out.  On Thursday, you have to have a blackout – all spaces covered!  Only one entry per person per day.

Who’s a square?

Below is the list of squares:

Square SquareUserName
Andy Leonard AndyLeonard
Aaron Bertrand AaronBertrand
Aaron Nelson SQLvariant
Adam Machanic AdamMachanic
Allen Kinsel sqlinsaneo
Andy Warren sqlAndy
Arlene Gray whimsql
Bill Fellows billinkc
Bill Graziano billgraziano
Blythe Morrow blythemorrow
Brent Ozar brento
Brian Kelley kbriankelley
Colin Stasiuk BenchmarkIT
Denny Cherry mrdenny
Eric Humphrey lotsahelp
Geoff Hiten SQLCraftsman
Grant Fritchey GFritchey
Jeff Rush JeffRush
Jeremiah Peschka peschkaj
Joe Webb JoeWebb
Ken Simmons kensimmons
Kendal Van Dyke SQLDBA
Lee Anne Pedersen leeannepedersen
Lori Edwards loriedwards
Mike Walsh Mike_Walsh
Mike Wells SarasotaSQL
Pat Wright SQLAsylum
Peter Schott paschott
Peter Shire Peter_Shire
Ross Mistry RossMistry
Rushabh Mehta rushabhmehta
Steve Jones way0utwest
Stuart Ainsworth stuarta
Tim Benninghoff bugboi
Tim Ford sqlagentman
Tim Mitchell Tim_Mitchell
TJay Belt tjaybelt
Todd McDermid Todd_McDermid
Tom LaRock SQLRockstar
Trevor Barkhouse SQLServerSleuth
Wendy Pastrick wendy_dance
Wesley Brown WesBrownSQL
William McKnight williammcknight

 

That’s all for now; I’m sure more will come up as I think about it 🙂

All aTwitter about PASS Nominations

Lots of interesting conversations about the PASS nominations happening on Twitter today; if you are not up to speed, you’ve got a lot of reading to do.  I’ll try to sum up as best I can:

  • Some people applied to be nominated for board positions; a nominating committed approved 4 applications for 3 open positions.
  • 3 of the 4 positions are well-established members of the SQL community; one is a bit more controversial.
  • All 4 candidates have been invited to express their opinions on various forums, and all have been “interviewed” by Brent Ozar on his blog.  Links are below.

If you haven’t read these interviews, you need to.  For the most part, they’re pretty insightful, and they suggest what direction each of the candidates is moving in when it comes to PASS.  Matt’s candidacy raises some interesting questions about the nomination process, and the role of the Board in determining the direction of PASS.  It also raises some definitional questions about what PASS is, and what it should be.  I applaud him for his comments on Brent’s blog, because it takes a lot of guts to stand up under fire (even though I disagree with some of his positions). 

EDIT: I should have also stated that I applaud ALL of the candidates for their willingness to engage the members of PASS, including the first step of applying for the job. 

Before I go too much further, let me say that this post is intended to be an indictment of myself; I did not apply to be on the Board, nor did I even express much interest in the nomination process before today. I also didn’t even blink before I voted; I picked the three candidates that I felt comfortable with, and was going about my business until the conversations began on Twitter today.  I will not be so lax in the future.

What bothers me most about Matt’s candidacy is not his position, nor his background, nor the responses he gave to the questions asked of him; it’s the fact that he’s the only candidate that the community seems to have engaged in this fashion.  Granted, many of the questions asked were for him to clarify how his professional expertise would make him a good fit for the Board, and those are legitimate questions.  There were also other questions that were asked to help clarify his vision of direction for PASS which would have been suitable for the other candidates as well.  All of that’s fair game, but why didn’t we challenge the other candidates as well?

When I asked the question on Twitter, the general response I got was that “we know the other candidates; we don’t know Matt”.  That may be true, but even though we know someone, that should give us the opportunity to engage them on a deeper level than the “dark horse” candidate.  Instead, we as a community let 3 out of 4 candidates express themselves with little or no interaction from us, and instead focused on 1 controversial candidate.  I am not suggesting that Matt should not have been questioned; I am suggesting that we should have taken more advantage of the opportunity to get to know the other candidates better.

EDIT: As pointed out in the comments below, Matt was not the only candidate to engage with questioners; I didn’t mean to overlook the efforts of the candidates to make themselves approachable, but I did want to point out that many of us didn’t take them up on that offer.

Again, I’m pointing the finger at myself as much as anyone else.  I should have applied for the position; at the very least, I should have asked more questions before casting my vote.

PASS Summit 2009 – Twitter Bingo Players

Last call!  If you’re planning on being at PASS Summit 2009, and you have an active Twitter account, and you’d like to be sought after by millions of screaming fans (OK, that last part’s an exaggeration, but there will be people looking for you), please let me know by Friday, 10/16/2009.  So far, the following tweeple have signed up to be squares on the card (please check your handle for accuracy; I’m a lousy typist):

@stuarta
@BrentO
@WesBrownSQL
@RossMistry
@lotsahelp
@mrdenny
@AndyLeonard
@peschkaj
@sqlinsaneo
@Bugboi
@billinkc
@williammcknight
@leeannepedersen
@paschott
@SarasotaSQL
@SQLDBA
@AdamMachanic
@SQLvariant
@whimsql
@kbriankelley
@SQLRockstar
@kensimmons
@way0utwest
@BenchmarkIT
@sqlagentman
@tjaybelt
@GFritchey

UPDATE (I either missed these, or they saw this post and wanted to play):

@SQLAsylum
@SQLServerSleuth
@loriedwards
@SQLCraftsman
@Todd_McDermid
@wendy_dance
@Peter_Shire
@blythemorrow  (who should definitely be the center square!)
@sqlAndy (who MAY actually post something<G>)
@rushabhmehta
@JoeWebb
@billgraziano

UPDATE II (last call<G>):

@AaronBertrand

 

Although we have more than enough players to fill up a card, we could use a few more so that we’d have a truly random configuration.  We’re still working on some of the logistical details, like how you’ll be recognized as a payer when you don’t look like your avatar, but this is coming together.

UPDATE (AGAIN): Rough draft of card is up: http://sqlserverpedia.com/bingo/

Becoming a better me…

This will be a short post, mainly because I’m in the home stretch for SQLSaturday #25; lots of little stuff to get done between now and Saturday.  However, a few interesting things have been happening lately, and I thought I’d share some of them.

First, Microsoft announced its latest round of MVP’s.  No, I didn’t get one; things haven’t been THAT exciting.  However, I do know a lot of people who were first-time recipients, and that means that even though I don’t contribute nearly as much to the community as they do, I am brushing shoulders with them.   It’s kind of like of being the geek in high school who tutors the quarterback; I’m not cool, but I know people who are. 

Speaking of those people, I had a brief email exchange with one of them to get a feel for how you become an MVP, and he shared with me his list of accomplishments over the last year.  I know that the MVP process is completely subjective, but seeing what this friend of mine did over the last year helped me realize that a) I do a lot for the community in terms of organizing events and making sure that educational opportunities are available, but b) I don’t do enough technical writing and knowledge-sharing to establish myself as a SQL Server expert.  

Do I want to be a MVP?  Well, yes, that would be nice.  It’s always a good thing to be recognized by your peers for contributing to the community.  However, my ultimate goal is to be the best I can be at what I do, and that path just happens to coincide with some of the same stated goals of the MVP program.  If I want to up the ante, and be a rock star, I need to find ways to share knowledge, not just networking skills (and still manage to keep my marriage and family intact), regardless of whether or not those accomplishments are recognized by my peers.

That brings me to my second point; I’m now sharing on StackOverflow.com.  Brent Ozar’s been a long-time advocate for this site, and I finally saw the light.  I like it; the interactive interface is richer than USENET, and the reputation system allows you a way of validating that the advice you’re getting (and giving) is good.  Today is my second day of posting, and I’m already up to a reputation score of 216 (woo-hoo!)

Finally, Brent Ozar, Andy Warren, and Jeremiah Peschka have just announced the PASS Log Reader Awards.  I submitted a couple of entries from my blog for their review, and I’m hoping that I’ll pick up a few readers in the process.  I know a lot of database bloggers started this year, and while this is a competition, I’m hoping it’s more of a motivational experience for me.  I need to write more technical content, and I need inspiration from others to do so.

Coming to PASS Summit 2009: Twitter BINGO!

So, last year at PASS Summit, I had my first real experience with a heavily-twittered event.  What was interesting was that I met a lot of people in real-life that I had just recently begun following on Twitter; I had made the comment (in passing) to someone that we should have had BINGO cards to keep track of all of the face-to-face interaction.  This year (since I just recently found out that I was going to Summit 2009 – yay!), I decided to do what I could to make the idea come to fruition.  Since I know Brent Ozar is big into social networking and he has some pull with Quest, I approached him with the idea.

We’re still working out the details, but it looks like Twitter BINGO is on for Summit 2009 (note: this is NOT TwitterINGO).  I do know that we’re going to need at least 25 tweeps (is there another name for people who use Twitter?) to volunteer as game board icons.  As an icon, you’ll be sought out by game players seeking to fill in their game cards.  If you’re interested in volunteering, please leave a comment with your twitter handle below (or DM me, @stuarta); to be eligible you must:

        • Use Twitter semi-regularly;
        • Be planning to attend PASS Summit 2009, and;
        • Be willing to talk to lots of people you don’t know now face-to-face.

More details will follow as we start working the kinks out, but I’m hoping this will help the online twitter community intersect with meatspace.  Looking forward to hearing from volunteers!

EDIT: Since it sounds like Quest and/or SQLServerPedia might be putting up prizes for this, we’re going to have to exclude vendor twitter accounts from playing.  Personal accounts are fine, so if you work for Quest, and they have a booth at PASS, you can still play as yourself.  Kapiche?

Leave-A-Comment Day!

  I recently watched the movie Julie and Julia with my wife; even though I was the only male in the audience (seriously), I really enjoyed the film.  It was pretty funny, particularly if you remember who Julia Child was.  Back when I was a kid (before cable TV), we only had 4 channels, and my mom loved watching this super-tall lady with a cleaver cooking on PBS.  Meryl Streep was amazing.

I’m sure that I’m giving nothing away by recapping the basic plot line; the story is about Julie, a middle-class government employee who escapes from life by cooking; she decides to write a blog detailing her experiences working through Julia Child’s classic French cookbook in a year.  The movie correlates events in Julie’s life with similar experiences in Julia’s.

Why am I telling you all of this?  Because, as a blogger, there’s a moment in the film where I can completely identify with Julie.  She’s been blogging for a while, and the only comment she had received was from her mother.  She was beginning to question her reason for writing, when she started receiving small gifts from her readers; realizing that “there was someone out there” helped her focus on achieving her goal.

 

Yeah, it’s sappy, and yeah, it’s a dramatization of something that probably isn’t true, but it did make me realize something; I’m a big believer in contributing to the IT community via blogs (and other means).  But a blog needs to be more than a lonely man shouting into cyberspace; at some point, there needs to be a conversation.  So that leads me to today: I, as king of my own little universe, hereby declare that today is “Leave-A-Comment Day!”  Huzzah!

What does this mean?  It means that I will pick at least three blogs today, and join in on the conversation; I will do my best to leave a pithy comment (something more than “thank you” or “oh, wow”).  My goal is to absorb and reflect on the material I encounter, and try to encourage the authors I’ve been stealing ideas from to generate more.

If you wish to encourage me on this quest, leave your own comment below.  Onward!

At what point did I switch from a film about French cooking to Monty Python & the Holy Grail?  Must be an attempt to salvage my testosterone.  Anyway, enjoy the Bridge of Death.